So what makes for a perfect first kiss?
Is it the anticipation? The mini Vesuvius of delight and expectation that wells up within and then bubbles deliciously over the top of your curiousity.
Is it the unknown? The terra incognita you travel when crossing from the desert of wonder to the oasis of awareness.
Is it the body language? The twinkle of eyes meeting, the crookedness of smiles upturning, the softness of lips brushing.
Well friends, whatever it is...I just had one.
But let me start at the beginning.
It was a simple enough invitation. "Meet me at the Hampstead Tube at 7:30 for a drink."
But since that doesn't give you any idea of the felicity about to unfold, I'll set the scene a little better. As Sophia used to say on The Golden Girls, "Picture this, Sicily, 1942."
It was a warm summer evening. I was facing a fairly light...alright, alright, downright empty...social calendar. The request had come from a tall, dark, handsome man I'd never met before.
Let's just say it didn't take much persusasion to dig out the heels and the go-to dress.
Oh, you know the one. Blue and white print, falls just above the knee, cut close in all the right places. Hot rollers in the hair...thank god for modern appliances...black eyeliner at the ready, a splash of Chloe to set the mood and I was off for my adventure.
An hour and 10 minutes, 2 tube lines, and a bumpy lift ride later, I was there. Not wanting to look like a wally meeting someone for a blind date, I languidly reached into my purse, fished out my new pay-as-you-go mobile and gave R a ring. So Keira Knightley. So Londonista.
Well, how did I perfect this particular move, you ask? Experience has taught and I'm a quick study...that the phone call on arrival is all basket, no net...and it's a two-for-one play to boot. You look fully engaged as you step out onto the curb, and even better, you know it's him when he reaches for his vibrating pocket.
Well I didn't have to wait long because there he was...all long legs and liquid eyes, leaning casually against the side of the station. A rake of the fingers...not at all affected or self-conscious, just practical...and I saw him brushing his thick hair back from his forehead. And smiling. At me.
"You must be R."
"Yeah, get here OK?"
"Sure. No problems. It's nice to be back in the old neighborhood. I used to live in Hampstead, you know."
"Ahhhhh. OK. Nice. So I thought we'd go to this little pub I know just down the street here and around the corner."
So that's how the evening began. And how it all ended, well you know that much already. But in between it was magic.
We talked, we laughed, we pet the 14-year old golden retriever visiting the pub while his owner had a glass or two of Sunday chardonnay. We nibbled on chips...that's fries for y'all Americans...enjoyed a couple of pints and sampled some chenin blanc.
We debated politics, we interpreted each others' strange childhood dreams. We shared growing up stories...about me in the US and he in Iran...and then grown-up stories too. How he came to London to study for his Master's degree in Mechanical Engineering and how I just moved back after a long hiatus. And all the while, we drifted closer and closer to that kiss.
So what makes for the perfect first kiss?
You know it when you feel it.